My boyfriend and I have been going out 1 1/2 years now. And now all we do is fight over literally nothing. We have tried talk about it and it doesnt seem to work. How can i fix it? Without break up. He said if it doesnt work out by december he is out.
Spend Time away From Each Other That way You guys realize How much you guys Really love each other & miss each other , and If he doesn't Miss you Break up Because it's no sense Trying to fix something that is already Broken , :/ i just got out of a relationship Like that ...
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If you truly fight over nothing, after just 1.5 years, it is time to re-evaluate. This is not something you can just fix. It requires counselling. Is he worth it? Then he will go with you. They are trained to fix these problems!
I would try to sit down one more time and have a heart-to-heart conversation about what's going on that's causing you to fight; weither it be someting you guys do, something you say to each other, etc. I wish you luck!!!!!
You have to learn how to fight and disagree without putting each other down and screaming over nothing. Before you get into a fight, ask if it is even worth winning a stupid argument if you lose him. Choose your battles better.
Bring back some romance, do the things that you used to do when everything was good.
On another note, it sounds like he is pretty much out anyway by setting a deadline like that. Remember HE has to work on it too, as it wont just work out by itself. (Although don't fight about this, have a decent discussion on what each of you could do better in the relationship and agree to it).