okay I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to handle a situation where the guy you are about to marry is having a baby with a girl he barely knows. We've been together 8 months and we've been living together for the last 4 months. But before he met me he went to this party and ended up getting some girl pregnant. He reassures me that he doesnt love her or even like her for that matter but i'm still scared. She had the baby a couple days ago and since she lives in a different state he went up there to see his kid (and his parents) but the whole time he has been gone all I can think about is that he's going to see that baby and realize he needs to be with her. Even though I might be pregnant too we've been trying and I havent had a period for almost 3 months. So who knows.... but anyways should I just pretend that it doesnt bother me or should I really be worried? Has any other girls been through this?