Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a couple of weeks now, and I really want to take our relationship to the next step. We have already made out and stuff, and i've talked to my friends and stuff and they say that the next step is obviously to try and get my fingers up her butt. I hear that this really arouses the girl and its a great way to make her happy. What is the best technique, i really don't want to screw this up and make it awkward? Which fingers should i use? Should I use my fist? My friend said that I should try my big toe but how do i get myself in the right positioning for that? Please help, i'm really confused.