For parents who live with inlaws, and constantly complain about everything?

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Why don't you just move out? I see a lot of questions here about how people don't like how their mom, mother in law, father in law, etc...treats them or their kids. They whine all the time and yet, it seems like it's not bad enough to move out. No one wants to hear it, if you won't fix the problem yourself.

So what's the problem, why don't you just move out, or stop whining?
I'm talking abut people who live there continuously due to unemployment, not wanting to work, etc. Your situation is obviously different, lol.
No, it's not insensative...if you can't afford your own place, don't have kids. I think it's pretty simple.
 
oh my goodness- i have no idea if these people are choosing to live there when they are capable of supporting themselves. My daughter and i lived with my parents for about a month when we moved across the country cause of my husband's military assignment and it wasn't bad at all. I actually enjoyed it- but if it was me my daughter AND my husband.... i'd go nuts! or... if i had to live with my in-laws i'd go nuts. they are ok- but i have a hard time living with anyone other that my husband and my kids!
 
ya, i lived with my mother-in-law for 8 months! why, you ask? cause our house caught fire and it took that long to build the new one. I would have loved to move out much sooner but we had nowhere to go. I whine like hell about how crappy it was and i'm sure she does to and that's ok cause it's what makes us human. We have been in our own place for a few years now and i love my mother-in-law... but i would never ever ever move back in with her!... unless my house burns down and we have nowhere else to go!
 
lol@alf

presumably if they're upset about it yet not moving out there's a reason why they haven't moved out.

i vent about things sometimes, too. don't you?
 
that's a little insensitive wouldn't you say? Did you ever think maybe they can't afford it
 
i don't live with my mom....she lives in our basement suite. and god is she annoying.

we can't move out. this is OUR house. i feel like i'm obligated to let her live here b/c she's low income. but i've really had enough from her and my brother who lives there, too. we're telling them they've got 2 months to find a place and move out. it's not my job to take care of two adults that are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves. i already take care of my own two kids who actually need me to take care of them.
 
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