for the girls please answer I think i should just give up ever meeting a woman?

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bigmike

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I think i should just give up ever meeting a woman?

I am a 34 single
I ask question about how to meet women I keep getting negative answers mostly my low self confidences or how fat. I had a really crappy child hood my family sucked I have been fat my whole life I have TRIED ever thing to lose it nothing worked, as for self confidences HOW DO YOU BUILD IT IF EVER ONE HAS CALLED YOU WORTH LESS YOUR WHOLE LIFE THE EVEN MY MOM AND DAD SAID TO ME my high school guides consular said I was to stupid for college to my face and yes I am in consoling for it
i can't be to dumb I can take apart a small block put it back I a few hours and triple the power output. I taught my self to read buy my self at 16 with auto repair books. I built a moonshine still with old copper pipe and a old beer keg I had laying around.
just suck when it come to talking to women and impressing her
last thing I am not lowering my standards want the best mach for me whether in much younger then me or same age or hot or not so hot.
i am a very shy nice guy I am not no push over push me and see what happens
i just want some one to count on
 
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mac

Member
Dude, go back to the previous question you posted. Follow what we all said, trust me. I understand what your going through but doing this wont help.
Please man, Dont be like this. Love yourself before you expect people to love you.
I believe that everyone on earth has a soulmate somewhere, some even have millions of soulmates, but in the end, everyone has at least one.
Dont do this to yourself man, be confident, believe in yourself.
I believe in you.
 
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KristinaMarie

New member
no matter what keep faith in yourself, i understand your family wasnt there for you, but god put other individuals on this earth for a reason, friends are always there to talk to you, you arent worthless, and god has also given you a soulmate, you just havnt found her yet, go out there a find her if you are shy then go on match.com! do what you have to no matter what, make yourself happy.

and if you are over weight and cant get if off then live with it, god made you that way! you can still be happy! but if it bothers you to much talk to your doctor about what to do about it, whatever you need to do in life that makes you happy, go for it, youll find that someone!
 
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Julie

Member
Wow... I am speechless... you taught yourself how to read by they time you were 16...? So I'm guessing no one ever taught you how to write. But seriously here's a tip don't try to impress a woman by telling her everything you just told us on here. It's not a flattering story!! Plus you don't even seem like a nice guy. You are not lowering your standards...? How can you even have standards if you want someone to match YOU. You want a young hot girl... oh lord you better have so money but by the looks of it you're probably lucky to have a roof over your head and a computer.
 
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