Freaking out at having a crush on a guy, while being like a lesbian.?

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I am a lesbian, I know this "for sure" since I was 18, and I've felt this way since I was 8. I've had one long relationship, I've had many crushes on girls, and all my life, guys have been stored in the "friends" box and it has been no problem.

I've never for a moment considered myself bisexual. There is just not enough evidence for this claim. However... there is this guy that leaves me breathless the moment I see him. It's such electricity pushing me near. This guy and I are no acquaintances, let alone friends. He is my customary piercer I've seen a handful of times in my life, and I go there about twice a year to get something done. Whenever I see him I get this implotion in my stomach that stiffens me, even though I am outgoing and a chatter. It takes me several days to get him out of my head.

I went to see him today, one of my friends got her ears pierced and again -the shock- overwhelmed me. And it had been a while since we didn't see each other, over a year, and he's too shy to trigger some conversation as was I, so we stared at each other for the longest time like saying "i recognize you, and i'm too fragile to speak, not knowing if you'll think it's weird i haven't forgotten you"

details like these just throw me off balance. Should I just forget about "i am lesbian", and embrace a possibility randomly met? or should I sort this out and see "the scientific reasons" for me to get to this point and find my way out?
 
I think if you identify as a lesbian, that's great, but you shouldn't feel constrained by it. If you have a crush on someone I don't think that telling yourself "I'm a lesbian, I'm a lesbian" will really help diminish it in a good way.

Just like I like guys. I'm not attracted to women. However, on the chance that I ever meet a woman that I AM attracted to, who's to say that that attraction is wrong?

And don't listen to Snotalie (though you probably won't anyway). People should really stop trolling on fairly serious questions.
 
Y do u hav to label urself. Sexuality is very confusing at times, v never know what turns us on.
Labelling ur self as a lesbain will restrict ur real feelings, do not restrict urself while expressing ur feelings, b free. U thought u were a lesbian but may b u r bisexual n u liked girls more n some few lucky guys who r really masculine or handsome. So in short u r easily attracted to girls but when it comes to boys u r very choosy only some type of boys might attract u.

And if u really think that much for that boy then go talk to him & plz don't b too shy do anything but don't loose the opportunity. Tell him slowly how much u like him even though u thought u r a lesbian.
I m sure he will really appreciate it n will love u for tht

ALL THE BEST girl ;)
 
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