Friends complain about my cleavage?

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Ali

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Two of my friends always complain about my "boobs being out". I'm like a 32 B/C, so they aren't big at all, sometimes I wear v-neck shirts with some cleavage but it's not offensive to everyone else except for them. They'll snap at me about it in front of other people which embarrasses me, and I really don't like that they're complaining about my body. I have body hangups and for them to do that doesn't make anything any better, it makes me feel like they don't want to see my body and that it's not good enough I guess, that kind of sounds worse than it really is but simply put: I don't like it.
They started picking on me about it again today, and I finally stood up for myself and told them to deal with it and not look. I feel like I might've overreacted but I think they're being really unreasonable.
I guess my two questions would be why they're complaining in the base case? And if I'm overreacting about this or not?
 
It depends. I personally think it's gross when girls have cleavage showing because I think it's inappropriate. They might have the same opinion...but if they did I would think they would tell you in private rather than point it out in the open. I don't think it's right for them to do that. I don't think you overreacted because..well..it's something they didn't HAVE to do around others. Like I said...if it was something that truly bothered them for that reason, they would have talked to you in private.
 
They definitely sound jealous. Good for you for standing up for yourself - I don't think that you overreacted at all! Unfortunately when young girls are insecure about themselves they often try to solve their insecurity by making others feel poorly as well. While it would be more productive for them to work on building their own self-confidence, they will try to destroy yours by making comments like this. Keep defending yourself and don't let them make you feel bad. When they are a little older they will (hopefully) see that they were being unfair to you, but for right now it's not likely that they will understand that they are projecting their own insecurities on to you. The problem is not you - it is them.
 
Hi well I am 38 DD with a slim body so go figure I get this ALL THE TIME look just be yourself bugga the others coz your not someone who has to be what they want OK Be strong cheers ?
 
next time they snap at you pull your shirt down until your nipples are half out or right above your nipples
 
They might be jealous of how the "girls" present themselves. I assure you that no man will ever take the time to say such awful things to you. Haha.
 
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