I have always had a hard time figuring out what my sexuality is. I know the quest at this point is to NOT seek a label, but I do have a question for anyone who has gone through what I am going through. and yes, I am pissed that many people have it so easy and are comfortable with themselves.
Messing around with the same sex would probably have been a lot easier when I was younger, but I am 27 now and most people think I am straight. My question is basically this: I think it is time for me to shut up and just go out with a man and see for myself if what I have been tormenting myself with isn't really that bad. The problem is that I am really shy and out of my comfort zone. I REALLY hate clubs (and yes I am allergic to alcohol...which makes things worse). I just want a safe way to meet people. Online dating scares me, especially when I read things like "HIV looking for same" etc.
Anyone have any advice?
Messing around with the same sex would probably have been a lot easier when I was younger, but I am 27 now and most people think I am straight. My question is basically this: I think it is time for me to shut up and just go out with a man and see for myself if what I have been tormenting myself with isn't really that bad. The problem is that I am really shy and out of my comfort zone. I REALLY hate clubs (and yes I am allergic to alcohol...which makes things worse). I just want a safe way to meet people. Online dating scares me, especially when I read things like "HIV looking for same" etc.
Anyone have any advice?