Get back together?

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drcheesemeat

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I have been with a gal for over 3 years and broken up with her probably better than 6 times! Each time we come back it's ME (stupid me) that allows it and it's out of feeling sorry for her.Usually a month (or even 10 days!) passes and we're back.I'm here AGAIN! This is the first time we've been broke up for over 2 months and I don't feel any stress. Nowshe's lonely and she is missing all the good times we had, in/out of town, vacations, snuggling/cuddling, sex, dining, dancing, singing, (a lotta romance!) all of which had a negative affect on her kids (see other questions concerning this). I do NOT want to get back together with ehr if nothing is going to change and I think she wants us to be kept a "secret".She's a very good lady; Just can't have a personal life with someone because her children won't allow it. I realize a big part of this is her doing because she ALLOWS her children to CONTROL her. She believes this is best way to be a mom because dad: not there
 
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Drea!

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its over jus let it go theres no point of on again and off again becuz it dosent only effect u but the other people around u too
 
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DRE C

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Minor children are always a part of the relationships of the custodial parent. Find out if it is true that she wants your relationship to be a secret. If so, you cannot have that kind of relationship because secrets have no place in relationships. She must learn to be a mom and a wife and lover at the same time. Perhaps that is the reason dad is NOT there?
 
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