GIRLS:How bad did it hurt the first time you had sex? did it hurt the whole time? ?

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I just recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend and to tell you the truth IT HURT SO BAD. Even the foreplay hurt. He touched me and fingered me and honestly I was in pain and when he entered I wanted to scream. After awhile it just became like a throbbing feeling. It was uncomfortable and I even zoned out for a bit. Needless to say I didn't enjoy it. I didn't even "get off" while he did. I didn't tell him because I didnt exactly want to demand that I get relief too so I just left it alone. I also have been bleeding and spotting but it's normal for that to happen after you're first time.

My first time was terrible but that doesn't mean yours will be. It varies from person to person. It might hurt the whle time, just the beginning, or not at all even! some people still even hurt after the second time. I'm not sore like some people say you should feel though you might be after your first time. but it definitely hurts for me to go to the bathroom or anything.

if you're uncomfortable talk to your partner and MAKE SURE you're ready. and ALWAYS use protection. I hope this helped!
 
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I had sex for the first time about two months ago. And I must say it was a wonderful experience for me. I think I liked the emotional connection between the two of us the most. It did kind of hurt, and it still does a little bit each time we do it, but I believe that it's worth it, and it will pass. So yes, my first time did hurt, but it didn't hurt that bad, and I didn't bleed. I hope this helps.
 
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okay, the first time i had sex it didnt hurt at all... but everyone is different, i have had sex alot now, and the only thing that hurts is whenever they goooo reallly really deep, the first time you have sex you will bleed, and you will bleed a few days after if the guy is large enough to "pop your cherry" if not it might continue to be a little uncomfortable for you each time, untill the guy "pops your cherry"


hope this was a help to you.
 
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