Goals, dreams, future, all destroyed? Why can't I accomplish what I want? ?

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I'm fucked for life. I never get to do anything I want. I have so many big dreams and I want them to become a reality but my circumstances SUCK. I want to be an olympian wrestler and get a gold medal, thats my dream, but seems like God doesn't want me to. I want to do good my senior yea rof high school but im doing BAD, I have to repeat a semester of a course I didnt pass and i didnt pass college algebra. I want to be a physical fitness trainer or wrestling coach in college my Dad laughs expecting me to be a family MD doctor or a pharmacist. My peers tell me I cant do anything and ive lost my motivation oto get out of bed much less follow these dreams....are all these goals people tell us to follow and accomplish all myths and shit. I'm tired of this man, is this going to fucking happen in my life or will I just die worthless. Anyways, peace.
and if you're going to tell me STFU or stop ranting, then maybe I will, but the problem still isn't solved.
You cant handle the truth, sorry, but can you please elaborate? ty
who said im quitting? im not fucking quitting? im a senior with 5 months to go.
Happy, you're saying I cant become an olympian. Fuck you. I can and I will.
I don't understand how my goals are unrealistic. Why weren't they unrealistic to the actual olympians who compete, but they're unrealistic to me? I can do what I want.
 
If you're not part of the solution, then you are part of the problem. Only you can achieve that which you perceive. You want it, just do it. Still in high school and quitting now is NASTY habit that will just become a major problem the rest of your life.

YOU are the master of your own reality/future and the choices you make will have it consquences, good or bad. You are the one responsible for yourself, attitude is the most important asset you have to live your dream.
 
God answers all prayers but sometimes he says STFU.

I am sorry your dreams aren't all coming true (in some parts of the world they call this the human condition.) Reflect on people like Tonya Harding, who busted her ass is lousy conditions for a chance to compete in the Olympics and then screwed it up at the last moment. It is important to LOVE what you do. If you can't be the Michael Phelps of wrestling, does that mean your whole life is sh!t? That is a problem. You can't fix THAT by working harder. You have to examine why your goal is so RIGID and caught up in GLORY rather than self-satisfaction.

If you watch Michael Phelps right now (courtesy of TMZ) he is experiencing the hollow misery that is glory. Glory fades and then you have to go to work, pay your taxes and struggle along. When his managers rip him off and he girl just marries him for the celebrity of it and then he becomes invisible, he too has to find out what he wants to do with his life.

If you hang all your dreams on a star, you will end up feeling like you do now, whether you fail OR succeed.

In layman's terms GET A LIFE. You can't live for a fantasy of glory.
 
A wise person once said:

"It's not the size of the dog in the fight. It's the size of the fight in the dog."

Meaning that the larger or bigger the dog in the fight is, does not mean it will mean. A smaller dog that is weaker but prepared to hurt itself and has the will to win, will succeed, or give everything he or she has in order to win.

Firstly:

Get rid of the self pity... I never get to do anything I want.
Ask yourslef: Is that really true? Write a list down for yourself, what you want to do, include things like going out with friends. And then in a separate column write your dreams.

Now:

Think about them, ask yourself if you REALLY want to live those dreams?

Circumstances have nothing to do with it, Ana Ivanovic, now a top-professional tennis player was born in war-torn Serbia and played tennis on half a court, that had no heating in winter and leaked?

Are you as bad off as that? No, chances are you have a warm house and a roof over your head, that's a start.

You can change the world.

The problem people have is believing it, once you can believe it then you can do it. Can you believe it?

Stop focusing on things that you didn't pass and focus on what you can do to make them better, it sounds like a gay option but if you really want to improve then go see a teacher with your problems. They are there to help you, so let them. They will often be very happy to help - IT'S THEIR JOB!!!

And no one, ever dies worthless. Ever.
 
God answers all prayers but sometimes he says STFU.

I am sorry your dreams aren't all coming true (in some parts of the world they call this the human condition.) Reflect on people like Tonya Harding, who busted her ass is lousy conditions for a chance to compete in the Olympics and then screwed it up at the last moment. It is important to LOVE what you do. If you can't be the Michael Phelps of wrestling, does that mean your whole life is sh!t? That is a problem. You can't fix THAT by working harder. You have to examine why your goal is so RIGID and caught up in GLORY rather than self-satisfaction.

If you watch Michael Phelps right now (courtesy of TMZ) he is experiencing the hollow misery that is glory. Glory fades and then you have to go to work, pay your taxes and struggle along. When his managers rip him off and he girl just marries him for the celebrity of it and then he becomes invisible, he too has to find out what he wants to do with his life.

If you hang all your dreams on a star, you will end up feeling like you do now, whether you fail OR succeed.

In layman's terms GET A LIFE. You can't live for a fantasy of glory.
 
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