me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now , we have never had sex yet . im 20 and hes 26 . we mess around but never actual intercourse ,im not afraid of anything except pregnancy ! i want to enjoy myself and my boyfriend , we want to make it a fun special time and the cruise would be romantic but i have alot going for me and i dont want to risk getting pregnant . im not on birth control and dont plan on going on it yet , and we would of course use a condom , and he is very good at controlling himself. should we use condoms ? and if so whats the best brand .thanks!