In highschool and college, everyone told me I was the "hottest girl in school" and even though I didn't think twice about it, it was still nice to get told I was pretty, but it never was a big deal. Now i'm 26, am 10 pounds heavier and don't glow anymore since I have 2 kids and lose sleep all the time, and my new friends (we've moved) are all sooo freakin hot still...they have kids too....and I don't even get a second look when i'm around them. I'm not looking for guy-attention since im married but its kinda emotionally difficult to fall from "the hottest" to not being looked at--at all. I'm not shallow or immature...someone told me in highschool (cuz she was older and wanted to i guess help me out when i got older and lost some of my looks) that...."the only thing worse than being the prettiest woman in the room, is when youre not anymore" and you realize your not anymore......anyone else feel this way ever?
gangsta--just cuz i had kids doesnt mean im not an individual still
gangsta--just cuz i had kids doesnt mean im not an individual still