Guy i met online wants to meet up?

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Abbey

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Ummm...Yeaaah i'm nervous. Haha not because i think he's a 50 year old man or anything, but because im afraid he wont like me or i wont like him, or it'll be awkward. Ive talked to him on the phone and i can CLEARLY tell he is who he told me, no not 50 year old. lol So any suggestions on how to make it not awkward...or anything? Thanks.
 
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tomas

Member
If you where to meet someplace make it a populated place just in case if it is a creepy 50 year old man so nothing crazy hazy goes on.
 
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chris

Active member
he is a loser...he clearly goes into chat-rooms to find girls to date...wait...did I just call you a loser?
 
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ANONYMOUS

Active member
I met up with a guy I met online (on fb) before..He became my bf now an ex tho since he was a liar and a cheater/player. But he wasnt an old guy, psycho, serial killer, stalker, etc. lol First, web cam. Do a webcam first so u can be really sure. Then, meet up in a public place with a lot of ppl like others say. Then just go from there. I gotta admit it CAN be a bit awkward upon first meeting but only if you or he makes it so. Meeting the guy for me was awkward at first bc he was a really quiet/shy guy (who is a player. I know weird mix) who was completely opposite on how he acts on text than in person & I was kinda quiet & shy too so that was a bit weird & awkward. But it got better after. Just try to act how you usually act. Be yourself. Good luck. Be wary tho. Don't trust him so easily.
 
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Eiss

New member
hahahaha this is why u dont tease lonely men...

if u dont know his age and you havent seen a pic of him den u r a complete idiot.. airhead u know
how about.... u go nightclubing instead of online dating u friggen idiot
 
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Redpill1

New member
Don't do this online dating can be very dangerous!
Answer mine please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Akia__FKBCr7eVeSbk_OnCMM_dw4;_ylv=3?qid=20111104010506AAaff9R
 
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michael

Active member
Well first off, be safe.

If you are confident that he isn't a wierdo then you just need to keep in mind that you two are already friends.

Talk to him like you would online and you should be good, obviously you said the right things if he wants to meet you.

I know it's so cliche to say this, but relax.

Another trick that works for me is pretend to be confident with your body language, and it usually ends up giving you confidence. Just a good mental trick.
 
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Eiss

New member
hahahaha this is why u dont tease lonely men...

if u dont know his age and you havent seen a pic of him den u r a complete idiot.. airhead u know
how about.... u go nightclubing instead of online dating u friggen idiot
 
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Vad

New member
Your age is relevant to this question.
Just meet in some pubic place that has a good amount of background noise, it makes talking less awkward.
 
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