DarklyDreamingDarling
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- Mar 30, 2011
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I recently started hanging out with this guy. We went out, went to his place for a little bit - when we were watching tv he had a couple of drinks and when he sat down he sat very, very close to me. After that I excused myself to the bathroom, then said sorry I had to go, but let's hang again.
Well, a few days later we texted about hanging out again. I went ahead and told him, "Hey I just wanna say this in case I gave the wrong impression, and I'm not saying you feel this way, but I'm not looking to date or anything". He wrote "Um ok" and we talked a bit more. Then we didn't talk for a few days. Today I asked if he wants to hang out this week, we chat, then he mentions just drop by anything usually "most of his friends" do that.
So now I'm thinking, ok it's all good. But now I'm feeling like an ass that I even said anything to him about not dating. Plus when we went out that night, he kept trying to pay for stuff but I wouldn't let him pay mine. What do you think? Is it good I drew the line? Should I just shrug this insecurity off ?
I mean, everyone was saying it seemed he was interested. I'm just insecure about this stuff :S
Well, a few days later we texted about hanging out again. I went ahead and told him, "Hey I just wanna say this in case I gave the wrong impression, and I'm not saying you feel this way, but I'm not looking to date or anything". He wrote "Um ok" and we talked a bit more. Then we didn't talk for a few days. Today I asked if he wants to hang out this week, we chat, then he mentions just drop by anything usually "most of his friends" do that.
So now I'm thinking, ok it's all good. But now I'm feeling like an ass that I even said anything to him about not dating. Plus when we went out that night, he kept trying to pay for stuff but I wouldn't let him pay mine. What do you think? Is it good I drew the line? Should I just shrug this insecurity off ?
I mean, everyone was saying it seemed he was interested. I'm just insecure about this stuff :S