Strongerthanyesterday1
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he's almost 30 so I think he grew out of his stage of "litlte games" yet he's still man so that will never change (if you know what I mean). I just spoke w. him a few mins ago...he wanted to study again today
My study colleague has been giving signs of interest (settle, not agressive). I could never tell b/c he was soo nice to everybody but seemed to give me special attention and was outgoing only when it was the 2 of us. He would carry my backpack (if he thought it was heavy), always wanting to help me and made "studying" as an excuse to hang out. (even our other study buddy could "tell" - he's a dude). He even found out my favorite piano piece, downloaded, and burned it onto a CD. We went out after studying to happy hour and he started asking more questions about my family, dreams, goals, etc...my "most romantic moment", "first kiss", etc...
I'm a very hard to get kinda girl...and like i said, he seems interested. We just studied last nite & ate somewhere after. He asked me more questions and one answer really impressed him...he was really "surprised" (it wasn't a "typical" answer a girl would say) and that was when that triggered everything. I got chills (fr. my drinks) and he was very outgoing and he sat next to me and cuddled, tried to make me warm again. He was very comfortable and then we went to his car to cuddled more. He was blunt yet a gentleman and respected my wishes. He knew he was going to be tempted but I assured him it was just cuddling. And we did just that. He really wanted a kiss badly and would sometimes be a "guy" about it (but not rough) and i kept stopping him. He asked permission to give me a peck on the cheek & then it became kisses on the neck and after he stopped being so desperate for one, we kissed and THEN he stopped and said, "if we keep kissing, it won't mean anything, too much means it's insignficant". (WHAT'S THAT ABOUT?!) After talking, I learned he's always been attracted to me. He never says it in words he's interested but has shown through his actions. He kept stroking my head saying he thinks i'm "cute", i had "soft lips", smell good, soft skin, etc.. he drove me home and played me my piano song (mentioned above), researched a restaurant (tht is close to my cultural roots) and suggested we go there (2 of us), and when he dropped me off at home, he saved my address/location on his GPS...he said he had fun and that studying was productive and that he overall had a fun day...and he'll probably think about the kiss tonight.... I don't know what to feel right now. I'm a smart girl...I know I didn't get played, I shouldn't feel bad b/c i'm an adult, i made choices...but just kinda confused on what happened...
What's the play by play, guys? Please break it down for me!
My study colleague has been giving signs of interest (settle, not agressive). I could never tell b/c he was soo nice to everybody but seemed to give me special attention and was outgoing only when it was the 2 of us. He would carry my backpack (if he thought it was heavy), always wanting to help me and made "studying" as an excuse to hang out. (even our other study buddy could "tell" - he's a dude). He even found out my favorite piano piece, downloaded, and burned it onto a CD. We went out after studying to happy hour and he started asking more questions about my family, dreams, goals, etc...my "most romantic moment", "first kiss", etc...
I'm a very hard to get kinda girl...and like i said, he seems interested. We just studied last nite & ate somewhere after. He asked me more questions and one answer really impressed him...he was really "surprised" (it wasn't a "typical" answer a girl would say) and that was when that triggered everything. I got chills (fr. my drinks) and he was very outgoing and he sat next to me and cuddled, tried to make me warm again. He was very comfortable and then we went to his car to cuddled more. He was blunt yet a gentleman and respected my wishes. He knew he was going to be tempted but I assured him it was just cuddling. And we did just that. He really wanted a kiss badly and would sometimes be a "guy" about it (but not rough) and i kept stopping him. He asked permission to give me a peck on the cheek & then it became kisses on the neck and after he stopped being so desperate for one, we kissed and THEN he stopped and said, "if we keep kissing, it won't mean anything, too much means it's insignficant". (WHAT'S THAT ABOUT?!) After talking, I learned he's always been attracted to me. He never says it in words he's interested but has shown through his actions. He kept stroking my head saying he thinks i'm "cute", i had "soft lips", smell good, soft skin, etc.. he drove me home and played me my piano song (mentioned above), researched a restaurant (tht is close to my cultural roots) and suggested we go there (2 of us), and when he dropped me off at home, he saved my address/location on his GPS...he said he had fun and that studying was productive and that he overall had a fun day...and he'll probably think about the kiss tonight.... I don't know what to feel right now. I'm a smart girl...I know I didn't get played, I shouldn't feel bad b/c i'm an adult, i made choices...but just kinda confused on what happened...
What's the play by play, guys? Please break it down for me!
