we've jz a family prob..i think it's mainly about my father..he just doesnt seems right up there and when things got worse and i started to have pressure and telling my mum,he'll say we can discuss bout it,but it's no use,he just doesnt change.We've quarreled last week and it was really serious,at last i told my father i really can't afford to lose my boyfriend and my family and he promise he won't let me lose my boyfriend and just now,he saw the personal msg i wrote on msn saying i love my boyfriend ,he just got crazy and scold me!wth..he says i'm too much and he sees us as "ordinary friend"