Have More Bisexual Pride With Myself?

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TheScemoCarrot

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Well, I am bi, and 14, but most times i can feel no pride in what i am, ( I think people who have dealt with homophobes know what i mean ) , Anyway, my question is, what are ways you good people of Yahoo Answers can recommend to help me feel more prideful in myself for what I am?
What i mean is that like the way i act and the way I feel make me feel like really bad sometimes so yeah, ( Just a little side detail)
 
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TrAvIeSa

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baby...i went through the same thing...i wasnt proud to be bi..but hey, all you gotta do is be like, i love who i am and FUCK anyone who has shit to say about it....
 
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TrAvIeSa

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baby...i went through the same thing...i wasnt proud to be bi..but hey, all you gotta do is be like, i love who i am and FUCK anyone who has shit to say about it....
 
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bobeshko

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Well, there's nothing to be proud of. Being gay is like having blond hair, or being right handed. It is just who you are. In my opinion, and I'm quite different than my queer brothers and sisters in this respect, is that you should be proud of your accomplishments. So, if you want to be proud, do something to be prould of. Volunteer somewhere, give of yourself, comfort a friend, be nice to an animal. That's something to be proud of, not who you like sleeping with.
 
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ConnorN

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First off you have to ignore ignorant pigs like the first answered!

Second be yourself! It's so cliché but true. If you stop thinking about what other people think of you, it's easier to accept yourself. You have to know that you can't change yourself and make the most of it. Life is full of surprises and if you don't limit yourself you will get more out of life. If you make the most of life you will love youself

Also, hang out with optimistic people. A good friend will always be there to support you and build you up
 
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BugYA

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A person that knows they are going in the right way does not need others approval to have satisfaction. I think you better reexamine the direction you are going.
 
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Ashes

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Well you have to be confident and make sure you can trust the people around you before being open about it. It's not as though you have to brag about your sexuality - just wait until you're comfortable.

xoxo

Mary and whoever else is offended...you know what the sad part is one of the places that I was molested was in Church - so shut up with all your preaching .
 
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Kiana

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I think it's great when someone can actually admit that they are bisexual. I have a friend who is bi and she only let a few of her closest friends know. We all support her and have no problem with her being bi. I think that maybe if you talk to your friends and let them know about it, hopefully they'll support you.
There are a lot of homophobic people out there and I know that my friend is having troubles with one in particular. But because she has us she says she feels so much better.

I really hope that you don't feel ashamed about who you are.
 
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mary

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Why are you choosing to take part in something immoral? You're still young and you can change your ways.

Remember, pedophilla and homosexuality is wrong, no matter how many creepy internet people tell you it's right.

People on the Internet lure young kids and tell them bad things, young man. Ignore them
 
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rldjdh

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There really isn't an easy answer to this... I first started having feelings for girls when I was about your age, maybe a little younger... But I was raised so conservatively and religiously, that I had myself convinced that I could not like my friend... because being bisexual was, in my eyes at the time "a horrible sin".... All of that stemmed from the beliefs of my family. Is your family like this? If so, that could be your problem. I am older now and out of the house and have learned that just because my family believes something is so, doesn't make it so. I have to be true to myself.

First and foremost, you need to learn that you cannot help who you are attracted to. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay, or being bisexual... It is just as natural as being straight. Secondly, try stepping out of your comfort zone a bit. Find friends that are supportive of who you are and understand where you are coming from.

You have already taken the most important step - Being true to yourself about who you are.
 
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