Have you ever bullied someone in high school? Did you ever meet that person again...

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...years later? And did show negative or positive feelings towards you? I had to wear head-gear and was very skinny in High School and there was this group of girls who would constantly be vicious and nasty towards me about it. Spreading rumors that I was 'anorexic' and such. They were very brutal about it, they even physically attacked me at a school function and I had to go to the hospital.

Years later, I meet some of those girls again at a coffee shop while I'm in town, they're all still friends it would seem. They notice me getting some coffee and just as I walked out the door they followed after me and asked if I went to high school with them. I comfirmed that I did and they had the nerve to try and act like this was some kind of friendly high school reunion. They asked if I remembered them and I said "Sure! That's why I ignored you the whole time I was in there." Then I walked away, apparently that made me a 'bitter hag', how am I the bad guy for being rude to a group of girls that tormented me when I was younger? I don't get it?
 
I've never been bullied, by anyone. Most people would just get intimated by looking at me. I was 6 foot 4 and 200 lbs back in high school. I was a football and basketball player, so I was usually on the what people call the *popular* side of the group. Though, my friends bullied and harassed a lot of people, I didn't ever bully someone. It kinda hurt to see my friends bully and taunt innocent and good people. I felt bad, that my friends were doing such bad things. Now that I am 21, I feel stupid for not acting and telling my friends to stop messing around with kids. I didn't stand up for those who were bullied, just so I could be *cool* and *popular*. But, once your done with high school, those things didn't matter. If I ever was bullied by someone, and saw them in the future, I would simply ignore them. What you did, was perfectly humane. Just say, "hi" if they say "hi". Don't let them bully you, stand up for your self. The closest to ever getting bullied, was when my own bestfriend pushed me and spreaded a rumour saying I had a small penis. My own bestfriend, betrayed me.
I am forever alone.
Hope this helps
Sorry, It was long.
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The fact of the matter is that we've all been bullied and we've all bullied someone else, and later on we usually meet the person we bullied to find that we were just dicks and they are actually pretty cool people, most of the time that happens.
 
Ummm If He/She Remembers You Say ''I'm Sooooo Sorry!'' And See If He/She Forgives You! SIMPLE AS THAT!
 
No, not that I recall. I wasn't really bullied either..rather I experienced that in Middle School. And I think I was rude and bullied someone once or twice in Middle School as well.

High School though...I went to three. So I kinda just passed through. I didn't try. I wasn't treated as a loser and anything; I fit in enough I guess.

I remember in High School daydreaming about meeting those people from Middle School again so they could see how I was. I mainly wanted them to see how attractive I became (lol, I know...losing the modesty).
 
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