he ignores me after we argue?

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Ok so my bf ignores me every time we argue sometimes for days at a time, thing is, if i feel im wrong i apologize but this time he's clearly in the wrong (spoke to me in a very bad way) but since the argument over a day ago i havent heard from him, and we talk a few times a day and usually see each other. can i get some advice on why he might do this and the best way to go about it?
oh and when he does this i dont speak to him until he does, like i said unless im wrong
In response to the fourth question i dont fully understand how i would be playing games? please only answer if you can take the time to actually understand the question, thank you
 
Get rid of him. You both are playing games and a real relationship cant work with that. If you want to act and be a child youll attract that from the opposite sex. hes obviously immature and you need to get yourself together and until then just enjoy life until your ready to grow up
 
easy - he's a conflict avoider. give him another day, and if he doesn't call . you call him. it's also a pride thing - he doesn't want to admit he's wrong, but he probably knows he is, OR he is sorry just scared to approach you. be nice and approachable and see if he apologizes or seems relieved that you broke the tension.

if he does not apologize, at another time, approach him and let him know that you were really hurt that he didn't apologize and avoided you. see what he does....if he doesn't want to cooperate, cut him loose.
 
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Therein lies the problem.
He's probably so stubborn and childish that he believes he is NEVER WRONG! If he's like that and he doesn't respect you like the fine lady you are, LEAVE THAT PATHETIC JERK ALREADY! DUMP HIM SO HARD HIS HEAD SPINS!
 
A guy not talking to you after a fight is very similar to you going to your girls complaining about what he has done wrong to you.

It is actually in fact a smart thing for him, it keeps him from saying something that he will regret.

Now if he is clearly in the wrong, then you need to talk to him in person face to face. Let him know how you feel about it, and if he disagrees give him a day or so to think about it and then tell him you don't think it will work if you can't work a simple thing like that out.

However, I want to warn you.....if you two continue this way, you'll end up wasting your time in this relationship and it will end in a disaster.

You two need to compromise
 
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