He said he's been really busy... is he interested?

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I met a guy recently, and he's very sweet but very shy. We got talking and he asked if it would be ok to give me his number. I contacted him a few days later and we had a date which went reallly well. He showed his interest by buying me a prince cd, which he bought with him, (because he was talking to me about music when we met). He also felt comfortable enough to hold my hand, kiss me on the cheek and ask if he could kiss me at the end. He kept saying he wants to meet again. He even told his mum about our date, lol. I text him when I got home, like he asked & said I had a good time. I'm 22, he's 24.

Since the date, he doesn't contact and I text him a few days later and say hi and it would be nice to meet up again, if he still feels the same. He says he wants to meet again. He said he had a friend staying over that week, so might have to be next weekend. (I know it's true, as he told me that on the date). I replied and said speak to you soon.

I hadn't heard from him and the weekend we are supposed to meet is coming up, so I decide to text him for the last time, basically saying it looks like we're not meeting up this weekend, and he can just be honest with me if he's changed his mind, etc...

He texts back and says "Hey, sorry. I've been really busy, but I should have let you know. Fancy going to the Brit film institute in the week? Sorry again."

So now we've arranged to meet on Tuesday, but I know he's extremely shy, but it's the contact in between meeting that is bothering me. I know he's busy, because he has 2 jobs. Maybe now he'll change, but do you think he's interested?
 
Well, boys know their responsibilities. So, if he doesn't seem to be talking to you anymore, then he may not be interested. But, it seems like he still is. :) Good luck with that!
 
Yes hes interested.

You said it, hes shy, probably doesnt know how/want to initiate the communication.
 
Don't push him, hold back on the text and slow your pace. He sounds like a great guy.
 
Is he really too busy to send you a short message? You don't want to end up with a guy that can live with you, you want a guy that can't live without you! Beware, this kind of behavior isn't very promising. I wouldn't dump him yet but don't let it go too much further. He doesn't seem that interested to me!
 
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