Heelp! i think shes lesbian! how do i avoid her?

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MAGIC

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okay, so i this girl i know is most likely a complete lesbo. shes in 3 of my classes, and shes a little..offf...if u kknow what i mean. Im kinda aquaintences with her, and i heard from one of my friends that she got kicked off the cheerleading team because in the locker room she tried to "touch" one of her teammates, and she put her on the floor and attempted to kiss her. idk if its true, probably not, but now im beginning to think she might be right. today in gym, i was talking to her because she sits behinfd me for our squad spots, and she came really close to me and touched my hair, and said that i had fuzz in it. and then, some of the boys were being funny while playing bball, and she said, oh my gawd, boys r so stupid. i was a little weirded out by that, i said "not all of them" and she said, most of em at our school, and then she shoved my shoulder a little. at that point, i was uncomfortable, so i went to go talk to my toher friend, and she followed me, sat down with us, and said "so, are we talking about girl stuff" and so i just grabbed my friend and we ran! i think shes lesbian! we're in 9th grade, btw, she used to be popular until she pulled her little stunt, i was never good friends with her, i never really liked her. im not that popular, i dont need extra stuff about me going around! helpp! opinions?! i really dont care if they're mean or not, just tell me what u think!!
 
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sophieleto

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omg! im in the same situation!!! there is a girl in my gym class who stands next to me in the locker room while i dress out and she talks to me and stares at me... *shivers* and she pokes me a lot and touches my hair and says its pretty. ive never really liked her shes so weird. she follows me constantly in that class. and we were talking the other day about why her friend decided to be home schooled, and for some reason her mom took her out because she wanted a boyfriend. and then she started to talk about that as if it was a bad thing.... OH MY GOD!! :0 i guess we can just try to talk to other people instead. and then if she comes up to you in the locker room like what happened to me, say "uh. i have to go to the bathroom." i also ignore a lot of the stuff she says. its a work in progress! good luck!
 
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Zak

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It is a bit harsh doing that being completely honest you don't know that she is a lesbian and if you were in the same situation as her you wouldn't want people completely ignoring you. Even if she thinks all boys are weird doesn't mean she is a lesbian if you are uncomfortable you could tell her instead of running away.

Even if she is a lesbian whats the problem with it, are you unsure of your sexuality? are you really the lesbian in all this? Lol jk but you don't know the whole story so should at least try to find out.
 
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DayAway

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Talk about boys more often...that often works....it may take awile, but she'll get the ppoint.
Dont stop being her friend. Uless you really reel unformortable,
 
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RyuK1

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Wow High School is full of immature people. Okay none of this and I mean NONE of this proves or even hints she's a lesbian. At all. First off, the rumor I bet and I'm sure is not true. She'd be suspended or expelled or something for that. Second, about boys being stupid; yeah they are. Especially high school boys. Grabbing something out of your hair, normal. I know people who've I just grabbed something out of their hair and vice versa. Nothing here shows she's a lesbian. Stop being so judge mental and immature.
 
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Stella

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Ew, that's sicko! She is ignoring people's feelings if touching anyone like that. Unfortunately, many girls in 9th grades are still mentally immature, and they don't think about other people's feelings. You said "she used to be popular" which means, she may think that she can flirt with anyone. You can also try to educate her that is kind of sexual harassment if she touches anyone without their approval.

If you want to avoid her, you should stay away from her as much as you can. Sometimes, there are situations that you can't avoid being around someone you don't want to be around. Tell her that you aren't interested in same gender relationship if she tries to touch you. You should also tell her that is very disrespectful of her that she ignores your feelings. You don't have to be rude, but you need to tell her firmly. Your message has to be clear. She will be keep doing this until she gets the message that everyone doesn't want to be around her because of her unacceptable behavior.
 
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juliam2

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Umm why dont you get to know her first
Rumors hurt and I doubt that one was true
And why do people have a problem with gays and lesbians
There people just like you
Get to know her before you judge
 
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Sonya

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I don't think she's lesbian.
And I doubt that happened in cheerleading, they would have removed her from the school.
I think she's just different, get to know her. She's not gonna rape you.
 
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Victori

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I don't think running away is the right thing to do unless she is acting really inappropriately with you, like trying to kiss/grab a private part of your body/flirt with you, but I wouldn't want to be in a situation like that when I'm not lesbian, too.

I wouldn't think that she was lesbian because she thinks boys are stupid, (I think it's is true for a lot of guys too, and I'm at dating age, rofl) but I'd still take precautions. make sure you aren't in a room alone with her or make an 'accidental flirt move', to say. Just make sure she doesn't think that you're into girls, unless you are lesbian.
 
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