my step mother is completly insane! shes a relgious freak (everyone in my family are adimant church goers and christians but she is over the top). To the point that she would always put posted notes all over the house, one on the TVthat said "GOD knows what your watching".. she is also a clean freak. (i am VERY messy lol). She has some serious control issue and for some reason needs to have control over our lives (even my brother who is 27.. i am 19). well ive lived here for about 6 years now and things have gotten somewhat better (we have learned to obey many of her rules and keep our rooms generally clean...although its NEVER clean enough for her) and she has given in a little bit with how strict she is. but she still is nuts, her son is a drug addict but were still not good enough. she talks sh*t about us "theyre the biggest most disgusting pigs on the face of the planet" and goes on about it for hours...i have no respect for her but i do for my dad. i want to move out......
but im getting married in september. ive been on the verge of leaving since december. the only thing that has kept me is the fact that if i wait it out i can do it right and not risk family drama (of moving in with my boyfriend before we get married). But im unhappy here. ugh what would you do?
I am in college full time and work 35 hours a week.
and im NOT getting married to get out of the house contrary to popular beleif (my moms side of the family thinks this). I want to marry him and i know i am ready. Shes not the reason im gettting married but the fact that im getting married is the only thing keeping me sane right now.. if i wernt getting married i would have been out months ago.
but im getting married in september. ive been on the verge of leaving since december. the only thing that has kept me is the fact that if i wait it out i can do it right and not risk family drama (of moving in with my boyfriend before we get married). But im unhappy here. ugh what would you do?
I am in college full time and work 35 hours a week.
and im NOT getting married to get out of the house contrary to popular beleif (my moms side of the family thinks this). I want to marry him and i know i am ready. Shes not the reason im gettting married but the fact that im getting married is the only thing keeping me sane right now.. if i wernt getting married i would have been out months ago.