I'm 21 and still have mine. Is it painful enough to make you like cry or freak out or is it just a tiny pinch for a few seconds? Should I tell the guy before we do it? Is that a turn off for a guy to know you've never had sex before?
Im 18 and i just lost mine. You should defiantly tell the guy first because if not he wont be gentle. For me it hurt A LOT! I was surprised by it, it didnt make me cry but its not just a pinch thats for sure. Just be sure to relax, go slow and breathe. It might not hurt for you at all, its different for everyone. I hope this helped