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<blockquote data-quote="Sarah" data-source="post: 2634125" data-attributes="member: 207128">Missed doing a test that was due and hour or two ago. Freaked out a bit but calming down. I hardly ever hear from my boyfriend nowadays. He&#039;s always busy and I know he does very important work (he&#039;s an EMT/Volunteer Firefighter) but I just feel disconnected from him. I try to text him a few times in a day (like to say good morning and see how he&#039;s doing) But hardly ever get a response. Well, it&#039;s always been kinda silent between us between visits but I just feel it a bit more now with college stuff weighing in on me. I&#039;ve tried talking to him about it but he sees nothing wrong with it. I want this to work but I don&#039;t know what to do. I tried to get him to call me once or twice a week at the least but he&#039;s only ever called me 3 times in our entire relationship. We&#039;ve been dating for a few months and was wondering if I&#039;m being unrealistic or just stupid. And still trying to get over the damn test we were suppose to do online.. Feel terrible since I have an average grade in that class and I really really want to pass. My brother is falling apart too and he refuses to talk to me about anything and is getting more snappy about small things. Did I mention my mother never wants to come home and when she does, she&#039;s always falling-down-drunk? Oh and can&#039;t sleep.*sigh*Just a quick rant.@skim Oh you have no idea. I&#039;ve been running into the same solution but I don&#039;t want to accept that.. I kinda really like him and he literally brightens my day. Haha, I can be quite pessimistic at times and he literally is my opposite in that matter. But you may be right. I will talk to him more about it when next I see/talk to him again. And have already sent her an email begging for a re-make or to take it for a late grade. XD And threw a &quot;my car broke down WHILE my internet was down&quot; Excuse so I couldn&#039;t make it to the library or something.@Holly No, just occasional texts and the rare phone call. Tried to come up with a way to get him to chat more without coming off as desperate for attention... and desperation turns everyone off from another. ; w; Will try.@Jess Couldn&#039;t supress a cringe reading this. Haha, hurts to hear but I know it&#039;s coming from an outside looking in perspective (which can be clearer than mine at times)Thank you. And already did the breathing excercises when I realized I&#039;d missed the test and was having a mini panic attack. Haha.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Sarah, post: 2634125, member: 207128"] Missed doing a test that was due and hour or two ago. Freaked out a bit but calming down. I hardly ever hear from my boyfriend nowadays. He's always busy and I know he does very important work (he's an EMT/Volunteer Firefighter) but I just feel disconnected from him. I try to text him a few times in a day (like to say good morning and see how he's doing) But hardly ever get a response. Well, it's always been kinda silent between us between visits but I just feel it a bit more now with college stuff weighing in on me. I've tried talking to him about it but he sees nothing wrong with it. I want this to work but I don't know what to do. I tried to get him to call me once or twice a week at the least but he's only ever called me 3 times in our entire relationship. We've been dating for a few months and was wondering if I'm being unrealistic or just stupid. And still trying to get over the damn test we were suppose to do online.. Feel terrible since I have an average grade in that class and I really really want to pass. My brother is falling apart too and he refuses to talk to me about anything and is getting more snappy about small things. Did I mention my mother never wants to come home and when she does, she's always falling-down-drunk? Oh and can't sleep. *sigh* Just a quick rant. @skim Oh you have no idea. I've been running into the same solution but I don't want to accept that.. I kinda really like him and he literally brightens my day. Haha, I can be quite pessimistic at times and he literally is my opposite in that matter. But you may be right. I will talk to him more about it when next I see/talk to him again. And have already sent her an email begging for a re-make or to take it for a late grade. XD And threw a "my car broke down WHILE my internet was down" Excuse so I couldn't make it to the library or something. @Holly No, just occasional texts and the rare phone call. Tried to come up with a way to get him to chat more without coming off as desperate for attention... and desperation turns everyone off from another. ; w; Will try. @Jess Couldn't supress a cringe reading this. Haha, hurts to hear but I know it's coming from an outside looking in perspective (which can be clearer than mine at times) Thank you. And already did the breathing excercises when I realized I'd missed the test and was having a mini panic attack. Haha. [/QUOTE]

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