we have been together for 10 months. 3 months into our relationship i found out he was flirting with a work colleaguee, this ruined my trust in him. it feels like there are so many barriers in our relationship since then. i feel he doesn't find me sexually attractive any more or want me ( never felt insecure before this) sometimes i think he just see's me as a mate...we live together. he says its cuz since the "flirting" buisness he feels he's always on eggshels and i nag all the time and push him away, that i have put barriers up and he cant get close to me cuz im so offish. pls help..i love him and want to work but how can i fix this? how can i break it down and for us to be close/loving/sexual again? if he doesnt initiate sex...i nag...when he does...im cold towards him!! i dont even initiate it any more. i just want to be normal 