NocturnaltlJD
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- Nov 15, 2010
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ive known her for about just over a year and recently broke up with her boyfriend of 11 months.
we skype'd today for like 4 hours video chatting because she moved out of state to go to a university. her and her boyfriend both moved out there to go to the university. while back i told her i liked her and she said she did too and if she wasnt with her boyfriend we'd be together, but now theyre not together and is thinking about moving back home to go to school here because school is tough on her there as well as her other problems.
she has my messages saved from months ago and was telling me how sweet/funny they are, she's hinting that i shouldnt move to canada but not saying why, she did once saying "you wont have to move because ill be there with you"
The thing is I LIKE HER! maybe love, and she pretty much told me she wants to be with me but i dont want to, what i mean is my mind is saying no but my heart is saying yes because i like her alot.
me and here nearly hooked up before but she realized after she was got on top of me and told me we cant do this i have a boyfriend (we were both drunk, and she had a bf at the time), she is wayy to friendly and touchy with other guys when she's drunk and i dont want to end up getting hurt by finding out she cheated.
so now ive told you why i think it wont work out, how can i forget about her? i dont want to forget her out of my life but i just want to be able to convince myself that it will never work out.
do you think what im doing is right? or should i get her a chance? am i running from love?
I know it's long, im sorry, i hope to get some responses, both agreeing/disagreeing with the way im looking at this.
we skype'd today for like 4 hours video chatting because she moved out of state to go to a university. her and her boyfriend both moved out there to go to the university. while back i told her i liked her and she said she did too and if she wasnt with her boyfriend we'd be together, but now theyre not together and is thinking about moving back home to go to school here because school is tough on her there as well as her other problems.
she has my messages saved from months ago and was telling me how sweet/funny they are, she's hinting that i shouldnt move to canada but not saying why, she did once saying "you wont have to move because ill be there with you"
The thing is I LIKE HER! maybe love, and she pretty much told me she wants to be with me but i dont want to, what i mean is my mind is saying no but my heart is saying yes because i like her alot.
me and here nearly hooked up before but she realized after she was got on top of me and told me we cant do this i have a boyfriend (we were both drunk, and she had a bf at the time), she is wayy to friendly and touchy with other guys when she's drunk and i dont want to end up getting hurt by finding out she cheated.
so now ive told you why i think it wont work out, how can i forget about her? i dont want to forget her out of my life but i just want to be able to convince myself that it will never work out.
do you think what im doing is right? or should i get her a chance? am i running from love?
I know it's long, im sorry, i hope to get some responses, both agreeing/disagreeing with the way im looking at this.