How can I get back at the girls who've gossiped about me?

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Don't get back at them... Just stay with the friends who are loyal to you. Be civil and they will eventually mature.
 
I understand how you feel, but I personally feel that gossiping about them back or doing anything mean to them is just stooping down to their level.
My suggestions are:
-Don't let it bother you. You can go home and cry about it later, but while they're around, pretend like it just rolls off their back. They gossip because they think they'll get a reaction from you. Don't give them one.
-Talk to them about it. Find them at lunch and tell them that you know what they did. Ask them why they did it, and why anyone would want to gossip about anyone. This takes a lot of guts, but if you really want to do something about it, the best thing to do is bite the bullet and confront them.
-Wait and see what happens. Maybe it was just a one-time thing. But if this escalates, or if they had done something like this to others, tell the Principal or your parents.
I hope I have been able to help... don't try to do anything mean is my bet because it's just as bad as what they're doing.
Hope I helped!
 
They sit at my lunch table and my friends told me right after i left they began to talk really bad about me. How can i get back at them? And no doing stuff to their lockers, they have cameras...
Ok, is there really nothing I can do. I want to say something to them!!! THEY SHOULDN'T GOSSIP AND I'M NOT LETTING THIS GO!! I HAVE BEEN KIND TO THESES PEOPLE and I am sick and tired of people just getting away with it
 
1. Gossip back
2.Be better and think nothing of it.
3.Talk to them
4.Join the slapahoe tribe.
 
Don't do anything. All they want us a reaction, so why give them what they want?
 
talk bad about them there or who cares let them gossip no big deal its not like its true
 
Spread some really twisted rumors about them. Drug use sexual affairs etc. Start it from some random person.
 
"Getting back at the" is just adding to problem. Be above those "mean girls". smile at them every chance you get. (a smile from lips are much more attractive then hate words:)
 
Be the better person, do nothing. Dont get yourself caught up in that stuff.
 
Ignore them, they crave attention from hurting other people and if you seem unbothered by the comments they are making they will stop,
 
"Getting back at the" is just adding to problem. Be above those "mean girls". smile at them every chance you get. (a smile from lips are much more attractive then hate words:)
 
Honestly, just confront them about it! It totally works. They will respect you way more and then you can figure out the problem. Plus they will probably stop probably stop. If you try and get back at them then it will just be an ongoing fight between you guys. Good luck! :)
 
"he best revenge of all: happiness. Nothing drives people crazier than seeing someone have a good f***ing life."
 
Don't do anything just ignore them n be happy so it looks that it don't bother u alright reply back
 
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