How can I get back at the girls who've gossiped about me?

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Dolly

Member
Don't get back at them... Just stay with the friends who are loyal to you. Be civil and they will eventually mature.
 
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Timsy

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I understand how you feel, but I personally feel that gossiping about them back or doing anything mean to them is just stooping down to their level.
My suggestions are:
-Don't let it bother you. You can go home and cry about it later, but while they're around, pretend like it just rolls off their back. They gossip because they think they'll get a reaction from you. Don't give them one.
-Talk to them about it. Find them at lunch and tell them that you know what they did. Ask them why they did it, and why anyone would want to gossip about anyone. This takes a lot of guts, but if you really want to do something about it, the best thing to do is bite the bullet and confront them.
-Wait and see what happens. Maybe it was just a one-time thing. But if this escalates, or if they had done something like this to others, tell the Principal or your parents.
I hope I have been able to help... don't try to do anything mean is my bet because it's just as bad as what they're doing.
Hope I helped!
 
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Person

Member
They sit at my lunch table and my friends told me right after i left they began to talk really bad about me. How can i get back at them? And no doing stuff to their lockers, they have cameras...
Ok, is there really nothing I can do. I want to say something to them!!! THEY SHOULDN'T GOSSIP AND I'M NOT LETTING THIS GO!! I HAVE BEEN KIND TO THESES PEOPLE and I am sick and tired of people just getting away with it
 
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BrooklynHott

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"Getting back at the" is just adding to problem. Be above those "mean girls". smile at them every chance you get. (a smile from lips are much more attractive then hate words:)
 
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TedHall

New member
Ignore them, they crave attention from hurting other people and if you seem unbothered by the comments they are making they will stop,
 
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BrooklynHott

New member
"Getting back at the" is just adding to problem. Be above those "mean girls". smile at them every chance you get. (a smile from lips are much more attractive then hate words:)
 
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summer

Member
Honestly, just confront them about it! It totally works. They will respect you way more and then you can figure out the problem. Plus they will probably stop probably stop. If you try and get back at them then it will just be an ongoing fight between you guys. Good luck! :)
 
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