Go to med school,
For real though docs are people with hobbies. Golf, sports, etc. Many of my doc friends are in civic clubs and we meet up at balls and fundraisers. If you are looking to date or marry one, its a lonely stressed life especially if they are good at their job. You'll be at a fancy dinner getting paged to deliver a baby or on the beach at your kids birthday and the pager goes off and everyone leaves because they came in the same car. Since he does 48 hour shifts when he is home he won't be into sex because he's tired and dealing with patients and interns. Private practice and greys anatomy are not accurate.
PS he thinks she's cheating because she complains about him not being home