How can I handle a rumor being spread that is partly true?

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Jen

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I'm a sophomore (15) and I hooked up with this one guy last weekend apparently wasn't up to my standards look-wise. But he was really niec to me and I thought he was cute! I'd just met him that night and it happened in our limo for homecoming. I was kind of tired and probably wouldn't have done it had we been under different circumstances, but by no means do i regret it. He is a nice guy, I just wasn't fully into it. I was rebounding from a relationship and having fun.
Anyways, the other people in the limo were kind of prudes and I heard that his friends called me a desperate whore behind my back. Now they are spreading it all around my PE class that we made out and being really immature about it yelling for the whole class to hear "SHE MADE OUT WITH ____!" (the guy that yelled it was from a guy who acted like a perv to me that i wouldn't make out with earlier on in the year). The rest, ___'s friends, are spreading it around quietly and giving me dirty looks.
This guy I think is cute but haven't really talked to is in that class and I'm sure he's heard. How can I deal with this? Am I pretty much screwed?
I thought he was cute but other people don't. That's what I meant by "wasn't up to my standards"
I just realized I have a lot of gramtical/spelling errors. Sorry I was really eager for an answer lol. :)
 
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2110

Guest
respect yourself...people will respect you if u respect yourself..
and may at this point of time you are the gossip topic ...time will pass and they find sm1 else to talk abou.......
 
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inuzuk

New member
No, you are not screwed.. your just in a lot of trouble for the time being. Look all you can do for now is ignore the comments simply because sometimes if people know its bothering you, they will do it until it eats you alive. Sorry, the world can be cruel but its not the end i mean people wouldnt say that "there is always a light at the end of the tunnel for no reason" Just don't pay much attention to them and try to do things a little bit different like instead of making out with a guy in front of others, do it somewhere privately so that way rumors won't start as easily and if they do, you'll know who started and who to talk to. Well good luck and i hope things get better soon just try to cheer up cuz its in this situation that you rlly see who are your real friends. Hope it helps :P
 
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