How can i save him from screwing up his future :/ please help me.?

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LetLivee

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my ex-boyfriend is falling APART.

He used to skip school all the time to smoke weed with his friends last year.
& almost failed due to poor attendance.
But stayed clean for a few months before & while we were dating.
but then summer came.
he dumped me.
& than got HEAVILY back into this routine again.
And i guess he does Acid during the weekends aswell
& probably a sh*t load of other things i bet :/

Whenever i see him in the hall at school he looks like the most miserable person on the face of this earth.
& it breaks my heart because he has SO much potential.

I talked to him at school yesterday & asked him how he was doing
and he basically told me that he wants to just drop out (its senior year btw) hes sick of everything. & he has no future plans.
no nothing.

its like he doesn't see the point in even TRYING to succeed.
i would talk to his friends but there just like him....


WHAT THE HELL CAN I DO ???? :(
i don't wanna see him f*ck his life up like this....
i care about him so much.
its killing me :/
 
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U_S_S_Enterprise

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As the weed smokers would say - it`s not the drugs, no sir..

Problem is - it is HIS life, and therefore HIS decision.
Add to that the fact that you are an EX - meaning basically that you have no right to interfere in his life.

But, if he somehow would pose a danger to himself or his direct area .. you could contact his doctor and ask his help.
He might not be able to tell you anything (confidentiality) but he could give you some pointers.

And yes, it might be painful to see someone you care for, for whatever reason, going on a self-destructive course - but other than talking to him, and asking him to stop this course - there really is nothing you can do - except maybe stop caring about him (and that will not be easy)
 
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boobiscoop

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GET HIM SOME HELP! if he doesn't want to go, go to a guidance counselor or someone and get advice from them that u could tell him.....if u really care about him, you would take time to help ur friend....i know its a little difficult because it might be the weed controlling him........ but be careful because he could hurt you, if he seems to start to get mad, let him be and bring it up later on.......just try it...
 
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