how can I stop being so shy around lesbians?

[Tee]

I'm naturally soft spoken and more of a listener. When it comes to dating I am extra shy and insecure. First of all, I have a disability and walk with a slight limp. I don't think that women will be into me because of it. Also I have lazy eye and I know it creeps people out. And I am ashamed to admit that I have bad breath. But despite all of this people tell me I'm pretty and have beautiful hair, I'm a sweetheart, etc. But I'm so insecure I don't know what to think. When I go on dates I hardly ever make the first move, although I did initiate my first kiss. I find it hard to make eye contact and flirt. Do you guys have any suggestions on how I can get over this? I'm so frustrated because I feel like I shouldn't have this problem in my mid 20s.

 

[CShoe]

A shrink could help you be more 'out there'. You needn't be ashamed of your breath unless you purposely make it stink so you won't have friends. Everyone's breath is bad. Usually all day.

 

[bec]

Get some advice from a dentist about your breath as this can indicate a more serious problem..like gum disease, which has long term health effects and can be passed between you and someone you kiss.
Bad breath will turn other ladies off....it can be quite offensive. the limp and the eye matters you mention are superficial, and will not bother a genuine lover.