How Can you deal with people who laugh at you coz of your build?

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AnnyBassd[l_l]b

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Im 18 im a big girl, abit jockey, im about 190 pounds 5 ft 4
I do go gym to lose weight and also to achieve my goal by joining a girls rugby team later when my fitness has improved. I have big dreams i want to join the Police force for my career and do some Millitary training.

When i was younger i had no self esteem, i wasnt bullied, i was just a HUGE pushover, and i didnt know how to say 'no'.

But when someone laughs at me now, i wouldnt use my mouth, i would rather use my fist and uppercut them in the jaw. But i would only go to that extent if i have to.

What would you guys say or do to them?

Please Dont say ignore, because ive been ignoring them and not doing anything back to stand up for myself, i am who i am now due to that.

Cheers xxx
 
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IcePrincess10

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No. People make fun of my weight (being too skinny apparantly).
Ignoring them gives the impression they can walk over you.
Make fun of them back. Dont let them walk over you. Dont show your upset. The fact you can pack a punch shows you are tough. If they have a go at you, knowing you can defend yourself will give you confidence.
Good luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
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Boomer

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The thing is if you prefer to answer to people who laugh at you by using your fists the that sends out a message that they have won furthermore, if for talking sake you did uppercut someone in the jaw and they decided to call the police because you assaulted them then you would have a police record and that could scupper your chances of getting into the police force. The best thing you can do is keep going to the gym to lose the weight and if you are confronted by any of these people take a deep breath and say "change the record you're becoming boring" and then just walk off and that shows you that you can control your temper as well
 
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scouser_babe

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i am 5ft 4 myself hun but am really toned. With our size if you put on a little weight you look so much more bigger don't you think.

People usually bully people because they are insecure about them selves e.g skinny people bullying fat, tall people bullying short. If i was you I would just ask straight whats your problem? at the end of the day you have said you can handle yourself so make sure you let them know with your body language and your attitude! I can tell you self esteem has built alot since you were younger which is great. At the end of the day your the only person who has to be happy with your shape and it sounds like your pretty proud of who you are x x x x
 
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jay

Active member
just say 'im fat,your ugly.i can diet.' they will seriously be insulted,even if your not fat just say it.
if they still continue dissing on you,punch them or something and say "im not fat! your just anorexic!" or something similar,just find out about their fuck ups and criticize about it or make a joke,a mean one of course.
 
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