how do homosexuals decide who the man and woman in the relationship are?

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dan

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It's called homosexual because there are either two guys or two girls. no one is the guy or the girl. gender roles are out dated.
 
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Ryan

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Besides external genitalia, what makes a woman a woman, or a man a man? Until you can answer these questions without a single exception, you can not determine gender without regarding biology. In terms of homosexual relationships, you are probably asking about sexual positions (top or bottom). That is strictly up to the person, where someone can be very masculine but insist upon being the bottom, or someone could be feminine and insist on being top. This has nothing to do with someone being more sensitive than the other. Gay men usually experience both before having a preference.

It is just pathetic that gay men try to mirror heterosexual relationships. Grow a pair.
 
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DiabloDeRosney

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iam just the man simple as that..ha...my boyfriend is the emotional one,i dont show much affection,we fight cuz he wants more affection.I tell him all the time that he acts like such a girl...so theres your answer.
 
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Amy

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You know, every relationship has different dynamics. Being with someone of the same sex excludes the "traditional" gender roll of the absent sex, so the definitions are up in the air. In the end, people are just people. Every couple, gay or straight, sets their own roles. I've known plenty of straight couples where the woman takes the lead and the guy stays home with the kids, or where they both work, and equally share in decisions and housework (etc..).

Homosexual couples set roles in much the same way as a straight couple - by getting to know each other and deciding who gives what and who takes what. It's not something most people discuss, it just kinda happens as the relationship goes along.

If you really are curious about this, I hope I answered your question =)
 
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Hildo

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I'm tempted to say "rock, paper, scissors" but that would be trite.

Much of what we do in our relationships is non-heteroimitative. We're a couple of guys in love or a couple of chix in love. Some people are more dominant in some ways and vise versa. The nature and psychology of personality is no different.
 
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Mrenoitall

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There is no man and woman, when I had gay sex, we took turns.
We both topped and bottomed, we both gave and received oral sex, when I say both, it means
as in the guy I was with at the time.
 
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