My curfew is currently 1am give or take a half hour. This means by default no clubbing or trips out of the area unless I am staying with a relative or someone they "approve". Usually my bf and I spend the day together when I visit because we rarely see each other imo (once a week). Why can't I spend the night at my bf (of nearly half a year)house its not like we are having sex or anything!? Btw, I am 23 he is 24 (2/12). Lol.
To make matters worse, I never really had an official curfew until I got a bf. My parents will say they let me have my liberties when in fact they are very restrictive. My parents even lock the door so that I am aware its "late". Everywhere I go I tell them when I am going and even have to often ask. I am a "good" daughter, always have been--I never snuck out before, I dont drink/smoke, I am drug and disease free a virgin college educated and active in church etc. so I am not sure why they will not allow me to occassionally spend the night with a friend or bf. Please help.
As for MOVING out, TRUST me I plan to do so. As soon as I have enough money to afford it when the weather gets better, I intend to move. I lost my job in November and have to pay off some debts. Unfortunately, I dont believe in living with someone I am not married to (my bf). My mother says the only thing open past 2pm is legs and liquor stores! LOL....how do I get them to change? I have adhered to the rules all but ONCE and apologized. Help.
To make matters worse, I never really had an official curfew until I got a bf. My parents will say they let me have my liberties when in fact they are very restrictive. My parents even lock the door so that I am aware its "late". Everywhere I go I tell them when I am going and even have to often ask. I am a "good" daughter, always have been--I never snuck out before, I dont drink/smoke, I am drug and disease free a virgin college educated and active in church etc. so I am not sure why they will not allow me to occassionally spend the night with a friend or bf. Please help.
As for MOVING out, TRUST me I plan to do so. As soon as I have enough money to afford it when the weather gets better, I intend to move. I lost my job in November and have to pay off some debts. Unfortunately, I dont believe in living with someone I am not married to (my bf). My mother says the only thing open past 2pm is legs and liquor stores! LOL....how do I get them to change? I have adhered to the rules all but ONCE and apologized. Help.