I've tried gay clubs and trust me, there is almost no young gay men. I'm 19 myself, and is looking for those that are around that age. People I've met are mostly 30-50. Its like talking to my dad and his friends...so not comforting. Any places I should check? Or is online dating the only way to meet up with guys? I've been meeting with someone but he's still closed, so its a bit irritating. And oh, another thing; is online dating safe? I've always heard bad BAD stuffs about it, care to give me some enlightenment, o,experienced ones?