how do i get passed my family talking behind each others back?

TomErvinldowle

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Right it goes deeper than this, i recently left university and had a few months away from work to regain my perspective, now i currently work full time. In my spare time i spend time with my two cousins on either online games or visiting them, but their mother (my non blood related aunty) felt it necessary to tell my mother that i need to sort myself out and that should get a job like a normal person (at the time i was volunteering to which this vile woman replied) but he's not getting paid, so in response my mum said he gives me all his money, which is more than the £20 your son gives you
, to which the woman said "what are you talking about him for at least he gets paid" and my mum commented on her sons debt which is a mystery because he states it to be a certain number and his friends state a much larger one, anyways this woman has gone and told them her "version" and now they are making comments about my mother, now the thing that really angers me is that one this womans track record is not great, she bad mouths her grandmother (who is still alive at the age of 89) who uses her pension to buy this woman a piece of furniture each week. And to make matters worse this woman claims she cannot walk even though she can perfectly well just to claim benefit, and you questions my morality? I dont know if i can cope with the arguing or the remarks anymore because they outnumber me and do it in a round about way, but i love playing games with them online and we are all huge fans of the same football club, prior to this we got on very well but my mother has given so much to me. What should i do?
 
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