How do I introduce myself to my husband’s baby mama in a letter?

[JoshScarborough]

I would like to send a package to my husband’s son’s mother. However we have never met. Partially because we are newlyweds and my husband is in the military. What do I say to this lady in a letter? Also, he’s not on child support I just send money in an envelope normally. This time I’m sending a package with a few toys, colors coloring books and a couple of shirts. She also has a son from a previous relationship so I put a few extras in there from him. Well what do I say in the letter without any drama? I hear she likes to keep up drama too….oh joy

 

[Unregistered]

I would leave it alone and let my husband deal with it..You are asking for trouble