How do I orgasm during my lesbian sex?

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I really enjoy being with my fiance and occasionally making love with her. But when we do I have a hard time "getting-off" and having an orgasm. I've tried realaxing, and focusing on the pleasure. But that is not working. Anyone know how to help?
When I masterbate I can't get off either? A few times shes gotten me to cum but other times she doesn't. This also gets her frustrated and upset.
 
i cant orgasm by someone else's hand, I have to be the one to finish myself off, even though sex with my boyfriend is very good.

maybe you are similar, have you tried finishing yourself off while she kisses you, or something?
 
I would try imaging some dirty yet sexy things in your head while your girl is giving it to you! For example you can join in the 'work' and rub clit hard and strong whilst imagining her grinding your pussy till the edge of the world. Also, keep groaning and yelling stuff like "YES!" or "Oh My God! Give it to me!!!" to get you and her in the mood. if she is unhappy with your non orgasms at the Moment, focus on her orgasm instead or try to get aroused beforehand by for example watching some porn...

You could even film yourselves going at it then watch the footage and see if you can pick up anything you weren't doing that could get you all the way!
 
you cant focuz on the pleasure. more or less try to think about dirty things in your mind hehe
 
It could be psycological in which case you may want to see a sex therapist. One thing that helps me is I think of what gets me off when I masterbate and close my eyes and picture that.
 
I would try imaging some dirty yet sexy things in your head while your girl is giving it to you! For example you can join in the 'work' and rub clit hard and strong whilst imagining her grinding your pussy till the edge of the world. Also, keep groaning and yelling stuff like "YES!" or "Oh My God! Give it to me!!!" to get you and her in the mood. if she is unhappy with your non orgasms at the Moment, focus on her orgasm instead or try to get aroused beforehand by for example watching some porn...

You could even film yourselves going at it then watch the footage and see if you can pick up anything you weren't doing that could get you all the way!
 
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