...be interested in friendly chat? I had been really into her andhadfeltnearpositive she was into me, so I texted one day that I hadbeen wonderingifwe couldgettogethersometime. She replied"of course" and we decided a time/date. The next day I saw her, I acted like she wasn't there...and the night before the meet-up,she came up tome tocancelwithan excuse about her boyfriend having a doctor's appointment. I recentlyfound out that about this time, they were going togtherforabouttwo months.
I completely stopped talking to her after that.Forquite a while,she would trytomake eye contact with me, but I would act like I didn't see her there. She would bring her clients over to the area I was working out ineverydayandwouldn't paythemmuch attention. I asked her one day if it bothered herthat I was there andshe said "I'm sorry I made you feel that way" several times in a sweet/caring tone...and she had stepped in close to me andbegan glancingbackandforthbetweenmylipsandeyes with a smile as she spoke, andhereyes began to gleam at some point....itvwas as though she was really trying to tell me she wantedtokiss me. This was in the middle of the gym btw(her workplace). I haven't spokentohersince.I hadconfronted her another time before aboutsome sh!t she causedwhenI flirtedwitha guytrainer- he seemed unbelievably pissed after mentioning she hadjust beentalking tohim aboutme just previously.
And now, 5 months into her relationship with that guy, they are engaged....andforthe majority of that time, she was trying to get my eye contact, getting jealous of guys I spoke to,andthat incidentwhere she gotinclose andlookedlikeshe wantedtokiss me...
I began personal training as well. I applied to the old gym-where we bothmet- and had not known that the managerthere is herfiance. The interview (withsome other guy) did not go well at all. I saw her later that dayandshe asked me how itwent (the first we had spoken in months) Note how she knew I hadjust hadthe interview...Itold her it went bad andshe asked if I was just saying that (out of modesty-like). I had been chatting with another girl, but she didn't pay any attention to that girl.She looked straight at me and never looked away.Her facewas real seriousandshe looked annoyed when the othergirlsaid something (hesitantly lookedoverat yhe girl). She walked away. The next day, I got a call from another gym who wantedme infor an interview, and I got the job immediately. I ran into that manwho interviewed me and he told me he hadreferredme tothat manager-though myinterview with him hadbeencomplete sh"t. I wonderifshe hadstepped in....anyway,that was actually the last time we talked. I don'tsee heras muchanymore (doesn't help that I'mnow working 40-50 hrs a week andI only see her at the gym ) She's getting married so I doubtshe is into me now ifshe was at allinthe past(I'm sure she was) I'mvery good aboutacting like i am not bothered, upset or in love. How doI begin talking to her again -if I'mever able to catch her? I've feltthis way for her for 9months.I try otherpeople andI have crushed on otherpeople,but she is still inmy mind. I still want to be around her. Sometimes,I'msure I've dreamt abouther andwake up wanting her. And deep down,Istill feel that she wants me too.I've tried getting over it-its only a wasted effort. How do i get to talking with her again?
Lately, I've seen her watching/looking atme with some sort of interest as though she knows something or had been talking about me. Idk. One instance, I did an exercise on a stability ball that may have looked cool and as she was walking from a machine with someone, saw me and did another spin to see what it was I was doing before turning back around again.
I completely stopped talking to her after that.Forquite a while,she would trytomake eye contact with me, but I would act like I didn't see her there. She would bring her clients over to the area I was working out ineverydayandwouldn't paythemmuch attention. I asked her one day if it bothered herthat I was there andshe said "I'm sorry I made you feel that way" several times in a sweet/caring tone...and she had stepped in close to me andbegan glancingbackandforthbetweenmylipsandeyes with a smile as she spoke, andhereyes began to gleam at some point....itvwas as though she was really trying to tell me she wantedtokiss me. This was in the middle of the gym btw(her workplace). I haven't spokentohersince.I hadconfronted her another time before aboutsome sh!t she causedwhenI flirtedwitha guytrainer- he seemed unbelievably pissed after mentioning she hadjust beentalking tohim aboutme just previously.
And now, 5 months into her relationship with that guy, they are engaged....andforthe majority of that time, she was trying to get my eye contact, getting jealous of guys I spoke to,andthat incidentwhere she gotinclose andlookedlikeshe wantedtokiss me...
I began personal training as well. I applied to the old gym-where we bothmet- and had not known that the managerthere is herfiance. The interview (withsome other guy) did not go well at all. I saw her later that dayandshe asked me how itwent (the first we had spoken in months) Note how she knew I hadjust hadthe interview...Itold her it went bad andshe asked if I was just saying that (out of modesty-like). I had been chatting with another girl, but she didn't pay any attention to that girl.She looked straight at me and never looked away.Her facewas real seriousandshe looked annoyed when the othergirlsaid something (hesitantly lookedoverat yhe girl). She walked away. The next day, I got a call from another gym who wantedme infor an interview, and I got the job immediately. I ran into that manwho interviewed me and he told me he hadreferredme tothat manager-though myinterview with him hadbeencomplete sh"t. I wonderifshe hadstepped in....anyway,that was actually the last time we talked. I don'tsee heras muchanymore (doesn't help that I'mnow working 40-50 hrs a week andI only see her at the gym ) She's getting married so I doubtshe is into me now ifshe was at allinthe past(I'm sure she was) I'mvery good aboutacting like i am not bothered, upset or in love. How doI begin talking to her again -if I'mever able to catch her? I've feltthis way for her for 9months.I try otherpeople andI have crushed on otherpeople,but she is still inmy mind. I still want to be around her. Sometimes,I'msure I've dreamt abouther andwake up wanting her. And deep down,Istill feel that she wants me too.I've tried getting over it-its only a wasted effort. How do i get to talking with her again?
Lately, I've seen her watching/looking atme with some sort of interest as though she knows something or had been talking about me. Idk. One instance, I did an exercise on a stability ball that may have looked cool and as she was walking from a machine with someone, saw me and did another spin to see what it was I was doing before turning back around again.