How do i tell him.? I just destroyed his future and mine?

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ok so in italy (school) my bestie me and my bf went and i shared a room with my friend and one night i stayed with my bf because his friend went somewhere

And being the stupid reckless person i am (im easy to convinse) i had sex with him .... :'/ and i regret it SO MUCH he said he used protection ... But as soon as we got back home i was feeling sick and when we got home i kept throwing up and my bestie got me a test and i was pregnant .... I told my mom (dad died in army:( ) she was upset but my mom was a teen we she had me soo.... And hes a GREAT bf but .... Im afraid he'll just leave :( i feel real disgusting about myself and stupid ... And its all my fault.... How do i tell him.? .. Im so scared to tell him ... I told his mom she was upset but promised she wouldnt tell him till i was ready .. His mom is VERY sweet and kind and i feel like i just destroyed her life.:( i hate myself for it
.my bf just thinks im sick .... What should i do.?

( im not getting an abortion, cause its basically murder)(im 15 hes 16):(

I hate myself for this :'(
Help me please .... but he was trying to get me to have sex
And i love him so ..
 
if he really loves you his gonna stay by ur side no matter wat..talk to him and see wat he thinks.. im sure everythin will turn ok :]
 
im only a few years older then you ditto with my bf.
I told him right away.
He never got upset with me, And now Hes happy were having a baby.
Don't worry about it just tell him.
But lt it out easy.
Try not to worry him by bawling your eyes out.
 
Why is this all your fault? Was he unconscious during sex or something? If he was awake and an active participant, then you both equally share the responsibility for the life you have created together.

Calm down. Its fantastic that your mum and his are supportive, as for your boyfriend, you wont know how he's going to react until you tell him. Legally he has an obligation to care for his child, and you.

Please stop feeling disgusted with yourself, this sort of thing happens and its far too late now to be beating yourself up over it. Calm down and start making some real plans for your future. Having a child young does NOT destroy your life unless you let it. There is absolutely no reason that you cant go on to have the life you planned to have, you just need to rethink how youre going to achieve everything.
 
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