How do you deal with a girl who has horrible humor?

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This girl named Maria in my class is in my group of friends. I guess she's sort of funny but most of the time she don't get none of my jokes, and I don't get hers. She'll say something totally NOT funny, and start laughing. I mean, her jokes...you can't even tell that they're jokes. That's how bad it is.
Her: my dad made chiken last night for dinner. -starts crackin up-
See? See what I mean? How is that funny? I mean, I don't want to be rude to her or anything but she's really annoying me. Then, on top of that, she's greedy. Wayyyy to greedy! She's like a stray cat: feed them once and they keep begging for more. That's how she is. And it's mainly food. It's annoying because the food I give her is MINE, and she'll make excuses like "Oh I didn't eat breakfast I'm starving you're so stingy." meanwhile she wouldn't DARE give us her food! It's annoying me: her begging for food and her stupid sense of humor.
I even told her she has a stupid sense of humor and she almost died on the floor laughing.
How do I deal?
 
She isn't your friend. She may be someone who hangs around with you, but you two don't seem to be on the same wavelength at all, she annoys you (you probably annoy her too), and you guys just don't mix well. Just stop trying to make sure she "gets" you, stop wishing she would change so that you could stand being around her, and accept that she isn't your friend.

That doesn't mean you can't hang around with her BTW. Most of us work with people we can't stand, and we still eat lunch with them, talk to them, etc. We are social creatures, and we have to interact with people who aren't our friends all the time or else we'd go crazy.
 
She might have assburgers. I have a friend with a bad sense of humor and calls us greedy when we don't share food. Be nice to her and just ignore her if she is getting to your last straw. Even if she didn't, still be nice :)
 
The next time she approaches you with a "funny" joke, just give her an "I don't get it" look and just walk away. And if she goes anywhere near you, pretend like you don't know who she is. It sounds mean, but she's getting on your nerves right?
 
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