How do you get closer to a friend you just met?

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I just met one of my friend a couple weeks ago and so far we've become really good friends. I think I've started to like her (a lot). How can I get closer to her (as a friend).
 
Do a lot of hanging out together. Find things that the two of you guys have in common and plan it!
But don't forget to tell her that she can trust you and confide in you for anything. If she ever needs someone to talk to; you're there.
It also depends on the types of situations the two of you happen to get into. Sometimes situations can help people bond whether or not it's a good or bad thing.
 
Obvious answer is take her out. Why would you want to get closer to her 'as a friend'? While you hanging out 'as friends' your the only one not hanging out 'as friends'.

It's weird to like someone and not give out an opportunity to do something about it. Hanging out as friends just anguishes you in the long run if you have no intentions but its tormenting yourself the entire time.

Ever seen movies with the exact situation as your asking? How do those turn out?
 
ask her on dates.
go for a coffee.
walk at the park.
something that means you guys will talk more.
take her out to lunch.

dont take her to the movies because you guy will be watching the movie and not really talking.
hope this helps. and good luck hopefully you friendship last forever.
 
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