...you move on? I am having alot of trouble moving on with my life. My future ex husband has lied to me about drugs and alcohol for the first 6 years of our marriage. Then this past year he had an emotional affair with a women. For a year he was telling me he wanted to make it work with me while talking and sneeking around with this other woman. Plus he called out of work often. I finally after ten months of dealing with his nonsense and him telling me we could not afford a divorce and after seeing a lawyer at that point knew I could not afford one decided to do what he said which was live together and do my own thing. Well when I did start doing my own thing he couldn't handle it. Started pushing me around and stuff. Plus during this whole year he was drinking 13 beers a night everynite. I finally got him out.I went through with the lawyer its been about 6 months now he is living with his Mom. I feel like this happened yesturday and I am having trouble moving on. He has started dating people already. It hurts when his phone goes off in front of me it just eats me alive. I can't stand being around him but we have two children and he comes to watch them when I am working and I just wish I didn't have to see him. He has said in the past 6 months that he wants to make it work with me but He has not stop drinking and of course If that was the case he wouldn't be dating other woman. What my problem is he has not ever had respect for me and I think that is what I am reaching for just respect.How do I move on. I have been talking to people but I have two kids and work when I don't have them . I really don't have time to give in a relationship. I am doing the best I can with what I have but the hurt is there and I just can't let it go. Please just give me some advice on what would you do if this was you????