look. i really like this gril. i have had a crush on her for 4 years and this year i was brave enough to start talking to her. and thats on the phone. i am still afraid to talk to her in person(like face to face). but on the phone we talk for hours. then something happened at a party. as we were dancing something happened. we almost kissed. i backed of. there also this guy who likes her and keeps away from menow i am confused what to do. do i ask her out now after 4 years. and there is a school trip coming up soon. do i make my move then or wait. i dont know what to do. i mean i really like her. i dont want anything to go wrong. even if she wont be my girlfriend, i want her to be my best freind.
How do you know if u are girl likes u and when is the right moment to "make a move"?
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Melbourne Girl
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stop procrastinating!!! it's already been four years! so tell her, or make a move... whatever, go for it!
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melchewvin
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you've been so patient!go for it
she obviously sees something in you if she talks for hours on the phone with you.as a girl, I'm really attracted to straightforward guys,but that's just me.GOOD LUCK!
she obviously sees something in you if she talks for hours on the phone with you.as a girl, I'm really attracted to straightforward guys,but that's just me.GOOD LUCK!
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Melbourne Girl
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Make the move. I've never regretted making a move, just when I was too afraid to and didn't. Be clear that you want to ask her out on a date. If she's not into it, your friendship should survive no problem as long as you take it well.
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melcw592
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Why did you back out? Tell her you made a mistake (in person), if she looks at your lips its a sign she wants to kiss you
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Melba S
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if she is willing to talk to you for so long on the phone then she must like you. and if she isnt going out with the other guy thats probly cuz she likes you. just ask her out and then you will have lots of fun with her on the school trip.
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melfox
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go for it. most girls r fine when there friend likes them
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melissa Dobson
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dude you have in love for 4 years its a long time but then if you keep waiting for her to say then thing again some grils like boys to initiate may be she wants you to say first dont wait for her to say just go for it all the best take care
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Melimar
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dude seriously you gotta hang out with her, and if you like her that much you cant be afraid of being face to face with her. at the trip, just be cool about it and make you move, and you will know if she wants it or doesnt, and you can play ffrom there. I suggest during a movie or whenever you will be right next to her one of the nights on the trip.
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Melen Y
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Well,if you want my advice the girl will flirt with you if she likes you...When she is flirting she will play with your hands, laugh at your jokes even though you know that they are not very funny, and she will possibly take everything you say seriously...if you want to make a move then do it when you take her home from a really nice date...
MelissaAnn
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Ask her out, you sound like a sweet guy, plus she was about to kiss you and she's not the one who backed out, I bet she'll say yes.
All is fair in love and war. Dont let another guy stand in your way. Maybe start out small. Talk to her in between classes, show her you care. Then start making more eye contact and flirting. Then when the right moment comes tell her how you feel. Making a move this early might be to much, but talk to her get to know her! Much luck xoxo
melisawriteslove
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aww go for it!! if she almost kissed you and you were the one that backed off, not her that probably means she likes you. u must really like her if u have waited 4 years for her right? so dont let the other guy get her just because u were a puss. go for it!! if she says no be like: well i really like u and since u wont be my girlfriend i want us to be good friends. something like that but not so cheesy. lol girls like honesty so be completely honest with her.... good luck. xd =]