How do you know if you are bisexual?

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Ok so i'm not sure if i'm straight or bi. And no i'm not some 14 year confused with their sexuality. I like guys that i know for sure. I've started hanging out with some bi friends of mine and they always point out hot people. I like most of the guys but when i look at the girls i think they are hot too. I don't know if that means i am bi or what. I live in a closeminded community and if i really am bi, i cant tell anyone. Living here really doesn't help with my problem. And i don't want to ask my friends about it cause they might just think i'm trying to be like them or something. I really don't know what to do. If anyone can help many thanks!
 
It just sounds like you are human. Many people check out people of the same sex but aren't bisexual or gay. It's just nature to look. Even if you were who cares. It's no one elses business but your own. Best of luck
 
Just wait it out and see if your feelings go further than just thinking other girls are hot. Thinking another girl is hot does not make you bi. But if you curiosity continue... venture out... and try new things.
 
If your sexually attracted to Men and Women equally. that's what makes you Bisexual. And from your story, i don't think your bi. I think your just curious about it because your friends have introduced you to it. But if feelings get stronger than normal, then you might be bi. But you do what feels right for you, and not because your friends are doing it.
 
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