How do you stop gossiping?

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AudreyClementine

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I hate gossiping, but I do anyway and the gossip spills out. Whenever there is drama at school, I know everything about it, even if I'm not involved. I have a reputation of being a mean gossiper, and I want to stop. How do you stop gossiping?
My friends don't encourage it, they don't like gossiping.
 
just imagine that everything you are about to say when you feel like gossiping you are actually saying to the person that you are talking about ........ try to refrain from saying anything behind another person's back that you wouldn't say to their face ....... foolproof.

cos in the end only kindness matters.

peace baby
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It is like an addiction ... the only way to avoid it is to not start it.
 
Think if nice things to say about people so that if something comes up you can say something so you arent' insulting the person who brough it us. You can just say "well, I hope everything turns out OK" then say "how are you doing?" learn how to talk to people. Learn how to discuss many subjects. If you are the one starting the gossip you are a people person you want that connection. So learn how to connect by being interesting. Read about everything you can so you have plenty to discuss. At first you will find you have nothing to talk about. If really is toxic to you & others know when you talk about them we are all telepathic. Become the nice person to everyone. If you start being nice & friendly you will be known as a very well liked person with this energy you feel a strong urge to us.
 
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