How do you tell someone you're not interested because they're not virgin...

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Eric

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...without actually saying it? I don't believe in premarital sex (just for moral reason, not religious). I haven't had it and don't want it and I'm also not interested in someone who has had sex. I want someone who's stayed as pure and whole as I have so please no telling me otherwise.

I've been asked out by girls and hinted by girls that they'd like to go out, but I'm not interested in dating for the sake of dating, but I don't want to lead them on think maybe some other time, but at the same time letting them know that I'm not interested in girls who are having sex.

How do you let someone know this without just coming out and saying it? How can you hint at it?
 
I would just ease out of it ! Keep the personal stuff, personal. You don't really have to explain yourself to them. There is no obligation, they are just casual encounters. No need to lay some guilt trip, or be insulting. Which is how that statement may be interpreted.
 
Your just going to have to be blunt because there is not other way I can think of that won't seem like your leading them on. Just say, "I'm not interested in dating especially not with someone who isn't abstinent."

P.S. Isn't it a bit harsh to exclude everyone whose had premarital sex? There are some people who slipped up but have decided to stay celibate until marriage from that point on...
 
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