She works in a charity shop...repeated visits without buying anything will be transparent attempts to see her, repeated visits buying stuff would make him look like a compulsive hoarder.
If she's not looking, for whatever reason, she'll say no. She'll say no whether it's now or in six months time.
If she's looking, and she's interested, she'll either say yes, or 'let's get to know each other'.
Best way to get to know each other isn't to stand in a charity shop when she's meant to be working making small talk.
Imagine if he'd just handed over his phone number before they parted - she might have called him.
Bumping into him a few times relies rather a lot on luck. The guy took the right approach.
If she's not looking, for whatever reason, she'll say no. She'll say no whether it's now or in six months time.
If she's looking, and she's interested, she'll either say yes, or 'let's get to know each other'.
Best way to get to know each other isn't to stand in a charity shop when she's meant to be working making small talk.
Imagine if he'd just handed over his phone number before they parted - she might have called him.
Bumping into him a few times relies rather a lot on luck. The guy took the right approach.